So, I don't really understand the family decals that have appeared on the windows of cars. Not like I don't understand = I think they are dumb, but as in I truly don't understand. What is the motivation behind them?
A few observations. 1) They appear most frequently on SUVs and Crossovers. Which I suppose makes sense because you need a good window to put them on. 2) I have only seen normative families. Even though you can by gay pride options (see below) I've yet to see any on cars.
So now some personal reflections: I have considered buying some. Mine would be non-normative, a single mom and a son. But I balk at that for several reasons. First, it doesn't seem smart to advertise that I'm a single mom~I'm afraid that might result in being a target of some seedy people out there, though perhaps that's irrational. Second, as much as I try to own and be proud of a single parent, there is still a part of me that feels that being a single parent means you have failed in some part. I'm afraid people will judge me.
I think there are some identity/performance issues to be explored here, but I don't have time right now. Maybe I"ll come back to it later. . .
In conclusion, questions.
1. Do you have these guys on your car?
2. Would you consider having any?
3. Any thoughts as to why they are popular?
January 19, 2010
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I always thought they weren't a very smart idea for the same reason you wrote. At least on fb you seemingly have control over who sees your stuff. I think they scream, "perfect family", when in reality, there's no such thing.
ReplyDeleteI think you're right, I think it's partly a bragging thing. But, is getting married and having kids an "accomplishment"? I mean, it's not necessarily easy, but something you need to advertise? Is it an "I've accomplished what I'm supposed to--look at me?
ReplyDeleteI get the college decals--after all g...raduating from college is an accomplishment and where you went says something about who you are. But I can't quite relate that to the family thing.
I would like to hear from someone who actually has some. . .maybe I'll start questioning people on the street.